Author Archives: BakersfieldMom

Ex-etiquette: Adoptive mom should try to understand grandma’s loss

Q: My husband’s previous wife passed on four years ago and left him with two boys, now ages 7 and 9. We have been married for almost two years and also have a little girl who is 6 months old. … Continue reading

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The Parent’Hood: When other parents criticize your kid during sports

Other soccer parents loudly criticize your son’s game. Should you go to the coach? Tweet

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Ex-etiquette: Be honest but no badmouthing to ex’s mother

Q: I recently broke off a three-year relationship — and his mother is my best friend. Who tells her and how do we do it?  Tweet

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The Parent ‘Hood: Using clean language in front of the kids

Your in-laws toss profanity around with abandon. Should you ask them to tone it down for the kids? Tweet

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Ladies, Five Things to Ask Yourself About Your Health

The following post is sponsored by Dignity Health: Take a few minutes and ask yourself the following questions.  Your family is counting on you!  Tweet

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Child Sense: Building a closer bond with your child at bath time

Bath time can elicit all sorts of feelings for a parent and they don’t all match the Johnson’s baby advertisements. Often this can be a period of stress but by understanding your child’s dominant sense, being organized ahead of time … Continue reading

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Living with Children … and their negativity

Q: Our 7-year-old son is very negative about everything. He’s a middle child, so that may have something to do with it, but everyone else in the family is very happy, positive, optimistic, and so on. He never has anything … Continue reading

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Ex-etiquette: Dad’s relationship with daughters is entirely appropriate

Question: I’m dating a guy with teenage daughters 16 and 18. He is always hugging them, and when we sit on the couch he will rub my leg and theirs as well. We went to a talk yesterday and his … Continue reading

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Parent’Hood: Colorful bras?

Your 13-year-old is spending her money on flashy, colorful bras. Does this mean anything?  Tweet

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Living with Children: Kids out of control

Question: We have two boys, 8 and 7. They are completely, and I mean COMPLETELY, out of control. They constantly argue, fight and tattle. If they’re not fighting, they’re playing chaotically. Homework is a constant battle, and getting them to … Continue reading

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